I think that there is something wrong with someone who is married hanging out with the opposite sex. reason one is, a married person is most likely married because they feel that they have found the right, and perfect person for them. Them what else do you need? Friends are priceless, but your spouse ( I feel) should come first. Why not hang out with both your spouse and your friend? No need to be alone together.... Two, you put a sense of Insecurity in the air, you give life to problems that would most likely never have came up otherwise; Where you been? who you talking too? why you going out?
when married it's better to Sacrifice the old time for the new.