I can relate, it mainly is the Black males, especially the youth. Because of the total breakdown of serious family structure in America. Over 70 percent of Black children our born today among unmarried parents(usually too young to even know how to take life serious yet). Boys are raised without fathers, active uncles/grandfathers/ male older cousins, etc. Black women have bought into thinking a good job, church membership and an education are all they need to bring up their children, especially their boys. They/we have been tricked again...it is WRONG! Also, remember, a girl is about 6 years older than a boy in the mind. So a relationship between an 18 year old girl and an 18, 19, or 20 year old boy is usually bound to fail. Black Women should return to being raised to make men qualify first, so the man must go out and establish something, so he should be 6 yrs. or more older than the woman. Also, Black women should stop being tricked into thinking they can be sexually loose(biology does not support the concept). Womanhood is too special for such a mindset, so goes the women, so goes the society! You are the MOST important!